The Myth of Selfishness: Why Moms Deserve Yoga Teacher Training
- Steph Cole

- Sep 21
- 3 min read
How many times have you, as a mom, put your needs last? We cancel our own plans to make room for our kids’ activities. We delay our goals to support a spouse’s career. We pour energy into community, schools, and households until there’s little left for ourselves.
And when the rare opportunity arises to do something just for us? The guilt creeps in. The whisper that it’s “selfish” to want more, to take time, to invest in ourselves.
This is one of the greatest myths women carry. And it’s time to break it wide open.
Yoga Teacher Training (YTT) is not selfish. It’s one of the most powerful, selfless things moms can do—for themselves, their families, and their communities.
Where the Guilt Comes From
Generations of women were raised to be caregivers first, individuals second. We were taught that our value comes from how much we give, how well we support, how tirelessly we show up for others.
But constantly giving without replenishing leads to burnout, resentment, and a quiet loss of identity. The guilt we feel when prioritizing ourselves isn’t a reflection of reality—it’s a cultural script that no longer serves us.
Redefining Self-Care
When most people hear “self-care,” they think of bubble baths or spa days. But true self-care is much deeper. It’s about building resilience, nurturing growth, and investing in long-term well-being.
YTT is self-care at its highest form:
It equips moms with tools to manage stress and anxiety.
It fosters emotional regulation and inner calm.
It strengthens the body in ways that support longevity.
It creates a foundation of mindfulness that radiates into every relationship.
Far from selfish, it’s a practice that benefits everyone in your orbit.
The Family Ripple Effect
When a mom steps into YTT, she’s not just learning yoga. She’s modeling self-worth, discipline, and courage for her family. Kids see their mother honoring herself, and they learn to do the same. Partners see her prioritizing growth, and they are inspired to support her journey.
The ripple doesn’t stop at home. Moms often bring their new skills into schools, churches, and community groups—teaching classes, leading mindfulness moments, or simply embodying the calm their neighbor’s notice.
One act of “self-care” transforms into a cascade of care for everyone else.
Reframing the Word “Selfish”
Let’s flip the narrative. What if being “selfish” simply meant taking responsibility for your own well-being? What if it meant ensuring you’re whole enough to keep giving to others?
There’s a reason airlines tell us to secure our own oxygen masks before helping others. YTT is the oxygen mask for moms. It doesn’t diminish your love—it ensures your love has space to thrive.
The Deeper Truth
The truth is moms who step into YTT often say it feels like coming home to themselves. The program isn’t about leaving family behind; it’s about reclaiming the parts of yourself you’ve buried under years of giving.
And here’s the most important part: when you reclaim yourself, you don’t subtract from your family—you add. You become more present, more grounded, more able to love fully.
Permission to Choose You
So let me say it plainly:
✨ You are allowed to choose yourself.
✨ You are allowed to grow.
✨ You are allowed to invest in your body, mind, and spirit.
Not only are you allowed—you’re encouraged. Because every time a mom chooses herself, she strengthens the foundation of her entire family.
Why Yoga Teacher Training?
There are many ways moms can invest in themselves. But YTT stands apart because it combines:
Personal healing (through mindfulness, movement, breathwork).
Intellectual growth (learning philosophy, anatomy, teaching methods).
Community connection (building a sisterhood of women on the same journey).
Potential income or impact (should you decide to teach or share what you learn).
It’s not a hobby. It’s a holistic transformation.
Enrollment Is Open
If you’ve been waiting for permission, here it is: You deserve this. 🌸
Enrollment for November 2025 Yoga Teacher Training is open now. Whether you’re a mom, midlife reclaimer, or military spouse, this program is designed to fit into your life—so you can invest in yourself without guilt.
Because choosing yourself isn’t selfish. It’s love, multiplied.
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