Identity After Kids: How Yoga Teacher Training Helps You Reclaim Yourself
- Steph Cole

- Sep 17
- 3 min read
Motherhood is one of the most rewarding journeys a woman can take—but it’s also one of the most consuming. The day a child is born, so too is a new identity: “Mom.”
It’s beautiful. It’s powerful. But sometimes, it swallows every other part of who we are.
For years, we introduce ourselves as someone’s mother. Our days are shaped around carpool lines, sports practices, doctor’s appointments, deployments, and school projects. In giving so much of ourselves, we quietly begin to wonder: Where did “me” go?
This question isn’t selfish. It’s honest. And it’s one that Yoga Teacher Training (YTT) is uniquely designed to answer.
The Quiet Disappearance of Identity
Most moms don’t lose themselves overnight—it happens gradually.
The hobbies we once loved fade into the background.
The career goals we once chased are set aside.
The social circles we thrived in shift or disappear.
Instead, our time is given freely and fully to others. And while that’s part of the beauty of motherhood, it can also leave us feeling hollow once the kids grow more independent.
Many women in their 40s look up and realize: I’ve spent decades being everything to everyone—yet I hardly recognize myself anymore.
Why Yoga Teacher Training?
Unlike quick fixes or temporary hobbies, YTT provides a deep, structured path back to self. It’s more than learning poses. It’s about rediscovering identity through:
Mindfulness: Training the mind to slow down, notice, and connect inward.
Philosophy: Exploring timeless wisdom that speaks to modern life.
Community: Joining a sisterhood of women walking through the same questions.
Growth: Gaining tools that build confidence, resilience, and self-trust.
Where motherhood asked us to pour outward, YTT teaches us to pour inward—and, from that fullness, to give again without losing ourselves.
From Mom First to Me Too
The idea isn’t to abandon your role as mom—it’s to reclaim the “me” that got buried underneath it.
YTT allows women to:
Rediscover passions that were set aside.
Cultivate a sense of purpose beyond family obligations.
Reconnect with their bodies in empowering, non-judgmental ways.
Develop a voice and leadership style that extends into their communities.
This reclamation doesn’t erase motherhood—it enriches it. A mom who feels whole again shows up more grounded, present, and joyful.
The Healing Power of Learning
Many moms crave growth. But once formal schooling ends, opportunities for deep, soul-level learning are rare. YTT fills that gap. It’s an education of the self.
Students don’t just memorize poses; they study anatomy, energy systems, philosophy, ethics, and teaching methodology. Each lesson is a reminder that moms aren’t just caregivers—they are thinkers, leaders, creators.
Learning something new at midlife is more than refreshing. It’s healing.
Community: The Sisterhood Moms Need
Motherhood can be isolating. Even with playdates and school functions, it’s easy to feel like no one truly understands the inner tug-of-war between self and family.
YTT changes that. It surrounds moms with women who are asking the same questions, seeking the same balance, reclaiming the same lost pieces. The bond that forms is more than friendship—it’s a sisterhood.
For many moms, this community alone is life-changing.
Identity Beyond the Kids
Here’s the hard truth: our kids grow up. They leave home. They build lives of their own. And if our entire sense of identity has been wrapped up in them, we’re left adrift.
YTT offers a different path. It prepares moms for this transition—not by taking away the beauty of motherhood, but by expanding identity beyond it. Moms rediscover themselves as individuals with passions, wisdom, and purpose.
Not About Teaching (Unless You Want It To Be)
One of the biggest misconceptions is that YTT is only for those who want to become yoga teachers. That couldn’t be further from the truth.
Many moms take YTT purely for personal growth. Others go on to lead classes at schools, churches, or community centers. Some turn it into a new career path.
But the most important outcome? A mom who recognizes herself again.
The New Definition of Success
In motherhood, success is often measured by the happiness of our families. In YTT, success is measured by how fully we rediscover ourselves.
It’s about feeling strong in our bodies, calm in our minds, and confident in our voices. It’s about setting an example for our kids—not just in how we care for them, but in how we care for ourselves.
That is a legacy worth leaving.
Enrollment Is Open
If you’ve ever whispered, “I just want to feel like myself again,” YTT may be the answer...
Enrollment for November 2025 , and January 2026 - Yoga Teacher Training is open now. This program is designed for moms, midlife reclaimers, and military spouses—women who are ready to reclaim their identity and step into the next chapter of life with strength and clarity.
Because motherhood is a part of you—but it’s not all of you.




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