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From Sacrifice to Strength: Turning Pain into Purpose

The challenges of SOF life can feel overwhelming, but many spouses have found ways to turn their pain into purpose. By channeling their experiences, they’ve discovered strength and meaning that inspires others.


The Power of Perspective

While the sacrifices are real—career setbacks, emotional strain, and constant uncertainty—they can also be transformative. Many spouses use these challenges to fuel personal growth, whether by pursuing new passions, supporting their communities, or becoming advocates for change.


Stories of Strength

  • A SOF spouse who became a mental health advocate, sharing her journey to help others navigate anxiety and depression.

  • A parent who started a nonprofit for military children, providing resources to help them thrive during PCS moves.

  • A spouse who wrote a book about her experiences, offering encouragement and connection to others.


Finding Your Purpose

Ask yourself: What has this journey taught me? What skills have I gained? How can I use these to make a difference? Purpose often arises when we turn our struggles into stories of growth.

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Steph Cole, founder of Lotus River Wellness, leading women’s yoga teacher training and wellness

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